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Saturday, March 30, 2013

Fly On The Wall Friday

Grace hasn't grasped the value of money yet and I have no idea where she got that 20.

Cleaning day.  Guess which pile is mine? 
It's a game of hidden pictures that fell out of  Mitchell's chair.  Yes from inside Mitchell's chair.
Can you find: pink marble, sliver marble, clear marble, basketball ramp, starburst wrapper, Trio, crayons, french fry, booboo buddies, bacon, cheerios, fruit loops, goldfish, sucker sticks, cheez-its.  Anything else?

This is what happens when you slam your head into the wall, floor and sofa arm enough times.

This is what happens to mommy when she tries to stop the slamming of the head.

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Happy Birthday to Mitchell

Today Mitchell turns 7.  The time just flies by these days, it feels like he just turned 6 last week.  Last year at this time - right about the time I am writing this post - a DCFS agent was at our house talking to my other kids, Steve & I about things that go on around here. Things have really changed since then and yet it all seems to stay the same.

I have become more outspoken on my feelings of Autism, Mitchell,  and how I feel about people who do or don't support us in general.  I have chosen to remove people from our circle due to their lack of understanding and support they have shown and have gained friends and support of others at the same time. It's kind of a funny thing having one aspect of our lives dictate how we live and who we spend our time with but I think everyone does that in one way or another, it just may not be as concrete as how it is here.  I don't struggle anymore with feelings of regret of wat could have been or cry for the future I hope Mitchell will have (or the rest of us for tat matter.)  We do what we can to get through the days and feel confident with our choices we make that they are the best for Mitchell and our family.

In the last year we have changed up our therapy services to more home based and directed towards play skills, socializing and food. It has really made a difference with me being home after school now instead of running off the therapy with Mitchell 4 days/week, having a sitter here, and having to cram homework and dinner into the evening around Steven & Caroline's other activities in & out of the house.  Feels like we actually have a handle on things and all the kids seem happier.

This morning we said "Mitchell it's your birthday" and he responded "Mitchell it's your birthday".  Not quite what we were looking for but last year we would have been lucky to even get a nod in acknowledgement from him.  Sometimes it appears things are happening so slowly but on days like today when we look back a year and see how far Mitchell has progressed it is an amazing feeling knowing he is continuing to grow and progress.
Mitchell March 2011

Mitchell March 2012

Sunday, March 24, 2013

Let's Go To The Movies

Earlier in the week we decided to take the while family to the movie theater to see "The Croods".  Normally we would not have even entertained the thought but there was a screening for people with special needs and their family & friends so we thought we'd give it a try.  It's Saturday and off we go to the movies, minus Steven but plus Abbey & Andrew.  The ticket price included popcorn but we didn't think we needed 7 so we settled for 5 and took our seats, filling up the 2nd to top row.

Mitchell immediately started squirming and Steve brought him to the potty, returning as the movies started promptly at 10am.  No previews is part of the "sensory considerate" screening - AWESOME!
Up, Down, spinning around.  the time was not passing fast enough.  The popcorn was not a good enough distraction and I guess the move just did not grab his attention.  The boy in front of us was watching The Wiggles on his iPad and didn't seem to care Mitchell was kicking his seat as he was in turn kicking the seat in front of him.  It was quite a sight to see (and hear) what was going on the movie theater this morning.

About 20 minutes into the movie Mitchell launched his juice cup about 5 rows up and wacked a lady in the back of the head.  Steve went to see if she was OK and retrieve the cup and the lady said she was fine but it scared the S-H-I-T out of her.  She was there with her own special needs person and was not judging us at all.  It's so nice to be on equal footing at times and be OK with it all.  Steve had Mitchell on his lap, then on the floor playing my phone>  we caught a glimpse of something being tossed over the seat and we're like "What the heck?".  His shoe, of course, lands on the floor in front of the kid with the iPad - he doesn't notice at all.  I'm pretty much done by now so I decide to cut my losses and let Steve enjoy the rest of the move with the other kids.

As I grab Mitchell, my purse, his juice cup, his coat and 1 bag of popcorn and step into the aisle the bottom of the popcorn bag busts open and kernels spill all over the ground.  I laugh (deliriously) and fold over the bag, heading for the exit.  While we were stopped by the outside doors putting on Mitchell's coat a worker graciously offers me a refund and tells me to wait as he retrieves $13 from the register.  I said it wasn't necessary but took it none the less.

I drove to McDonalds for fries but they weren't serving them until 11.  We got drinks and went to a park to play until the movie was over.  It ended up being just a fine morning for Mitchell, he was happy in the end.  He was not put off by the frustration at the theater at all and we will out it down as one more thing we had to try to see that it wasn't going to work for us right now.

Friday, March 15, 2013

Fly On The Wall Friday

Talking about Grace's birthday coming up Steve says everyone should donate to her college fund (typical Steve) and Grace chimes in "I'm not going to college, I'm too little."  Steve then tells her not now, when she gets older and she asks "like when I'm 4?"  Then she went on to say she can't go by herself so mommy will have to go with her and so will daddy and Caroline, Mitchell & Steven.



Steve: Big girls don't need binkies.
Grace pointing to herself:  Well this one does!



Driving Caroline and her friend to Brownies the other day Caroline is talking about her Pet badge and the friend chimes in about her dog an dhow silly he is and then I hear her say "my dogs chews on his private parts"  and then they both start giggling.  Oh geesh.




Good spot to read his book

Everyone has a talent

Steve decided it was time it remove the child safety locks around the house.....

Utility room lock is back on now.


Playing in the rain


Saturday, March 2, 2013

Fly On The Wall Friday

Welcome to the 1st edition of Fly On The Wall Friday where you will see and hear things you would have if you were..........that's right  a Fly On The Wall hanging with the Iveys.







Just leave me alone.

Lizard Flashcard

Mitchell's Lizard
Everyone is buckled up safely.